Home Buyer's Guide: 
Helping Children Cope With Moving


  • Show the children the new home and their new room prior to moving. If this is not possible, pictures or videos will help them visualize where they are going.

  • Assure children that you won't forget their friends.

  • Make a scrapbook of the old home and neighborhood.

  • Throw a goodbye party. At the party, have their friends sign a t-shirt.

  • Have your children write goodbye letters and enclose their new address. You may wish to call the other children's parents so that they will encourage return letters.

  • When packing, give your children their own boxes and let them decorate them.

  • Start a scrapbook for your new home.

  • Visit your children's new school, park, church, etc...Take a camera.

  • Help your children invite new friends over to your new home.

  • Let your children choose a new favorite restaurant. This will help them feel in control of their new environment.

  • Encourage your children to send letters about their new home to their new friends. 

  • Involve your children in groups, sports, and activities like the ones they used to participate in.

  • Remember, even if you only lived in a home for a few years, to a young child it is nearly their entire lifetime.